No fear; No surprise; No hesitation; No doubt
I recently came across this "rule" from a book The Rules Of Life by Richard Templar.
This immediately alleviates a lot of my consistent worries around the decisions that I made in the past.
I want to share this with you all, hope this viewpoint can also give you relief in your personal and professional adventures.
No Fear:
There should be nothing in this life that you are afraid of. If there is, you need to do some work on overcoming that fear.
Whatever your fear, face it head-on and defeat it.
No Surprise:
Life seems to be full of them, doesn't it? You are going along swimmingly and suddenly something huge rears up ahead of you.
But if you look carefully, there were clues all along the way that it was going to happen. Whatever your situation now, it is going to change.
So why does life seem to surprise us then? Because we are asleep half the time.
Wake up, and nothing can sneak up on you.
No Hesitation:
Weigh up the odds and then just get on with it. If you hang back, the opportunity will have passed. If you spend too long thinking, you'll never make a move.
Once we have looked at the options, we make a choice, a decision and then go for it.
No hesitation means if there is a certain inevitability about a situation, then just throw yourself in head-first and enjoy the ride.
If there is nothing to be done, then waiting doesn't help.
No Doubt:
Once you have made up your mind about something, don't go over it again and again.
Stop thinking and enjoy - relax and let go. Tomorrow will come along as certainly as it can. There is no doubt about life. It just is.
Be confident. Be committed. Be sure of yourself.
Once you have committed yourself to a set course, a path, a plan, then follow it through.
Have no doubt it was the right thing to do and no doubt that you will succeed. Get on with it and trust your judgement completely.